Choosing an Engagement Ring That Suits Your Lifestyle (Not Just the Trend)

Choosing an engagement ring is exciting — but it can also feel overwhelming. With endless styles, stone shapes, social media trends and opinions from well‑meaning friends and family, it’s easy to focus on what looks beautiful rather than what will actually suit everyday life.

At Gillian’s Jewellery in Forest Hill Chase, we gently guide couples through an important question: not just “What do you love?” but also “How do you live?”

An engagement ring is usually worn every day. It should feel comfortable, practical and secure — not just impressive in a photo.

Why Lifestyle Matters More Than Trends

Trends change. Your lifestyle doesn’t — at least not overnight.

A ring that works beautifully for someone with a desk‑based job may feel impractical for someone who works with their hands, exercises daily, or regularly wears gloves.

When choosing a design, it helps to consider:

• Do you work with your hands?

• Are you frequently at the gym or outdoors?

• Do you wear gloves for work?

• Do you prefer low‑maintenance jewellery?

• Are you comfortable removing your ring when needed?

These questions aren’t about limiting your choices. They’re about making sure your ring supports your daily routine.

Stone Height and Setting Style

One of the biggest comfort factors is how high the centre stone sits.

Higher settings can create a dramatic look, allowing more light into the stone. However, they may also:

• Catch on clothing

• Feel more exposed

• Be knocked more easily during daily activities

Lower‑profile settings tend to feel more secure and practical for active lifestyles, while still looking elegant.

A custom design consultation allows you to explore both visual impact and wearability.

Choosing a Stone Shape with Everyday Wear in Mind

Different stone shapes behave differently in real life.

For example:

• Elongated shapes may appear larger but can be more exposed at the edges

• Square shapes have corners that require protective settings

• Round stones distribute impact evenly and are often considered durable for daily wear

There’s no “best” shape — only the one that suits your preferences and habits.

Band Width and Long‑Term Durability

Delicate bands are very popular, especially in minimalist designs. While they can look refined and elegant, extremely thin bands may not suit heavy daily wear over many years.

Slightly wider bands often:

• Feel more balanced

• Offer greater long‑term durability

• Reduce the need for early structural reinforcement

At Gillian’s Jewellery, we help clients find the sweet spot between aesthetic and strength.

Metal Choice and Maintenance

Metal choice plays a role in comfort, durability and long‑term appearance.

Different metals vary in colour, density and wear patterns. Some may show scratches more visibly, while others develop a softer patina over time.

During your consultation, we discuss:

• Your colour preference

• Skin sensitivity considerations

• Maintenance expectations

• Long‑term durability

An engagement ring is not just about the first impression — it’s about how it ages with you.

Planning for a Wedding Band

Another practical consideration is how the engagement ring will sit alongside a future wedding band.

Some high‑set or uniquely shaped rings require custom wedding bands to fit neatly beside them. Planning ahead avoids surprises later.

Custom design allows both rings to work together harmoniously.

The Value of Trying Designs in Person

Photos can be misleading. Proportions look different on every hand, and comfort can’t be judged visually.

Trying on different styles helps you notice:

• How the ring feels between your fingers

• Whether it spins

• If it catches on clothing

• How balanced it feels on your hand

This hands‑on experience is often where clarity begins.

A Thoughtful, Personalised Approach

At Gillian’s Jewellery in Forest Hill Chase, engagement ring design is never rushed. We take time to understand your lifestyle, preferences and long‑term goals before recommending a direction.

The result is a ring that doesn’t just look beautiful — it feels right, every single day.

If you’re beginning your engagement ring journey, a professional consultation can help you make confident, informed decisions that you’ll be happy with for decades.